summer 2010. just because.
Over lunch today, we talked.
The boy and I.
Out of the blue he asked (very seriously),
when we could go to the North Pole.
I laughed.
"WHY??? It's so cold!"
"But we wouldn't stay there forever,
I just want to see it."
"Well bud......there's not really a lot to see at the North Pole.
Not very many people go there--it's hard to get there and it would take a long time."
"I knew you would say it would take a long time!
So I thought we would just have to take a rocket ship, and then we could get there fast."
In his beautiful little mind, there was no reason not to take a family trip to the North Pole.
Why not?
It was a corner of the Earth that he wanted to explore,
and there was no excuse good enough to keep him from doing it.
And how lucky am I that he wanted me there too.
I wanted to freeze that thought, so I could jump in to it at any given moment.
Just like they jump into Burt's chalk drawings in Mary Poppins.
I wanted to be little, with no limits, fears, budgets or excuses.
No reasons not to do things--just a list of things to do.
In one tiny conversation over lunch,
my little boy taught me a wonderful lesson.
I have too many reasons, fears, and excuses filling up my adult mind.
Maybe he can go to the North Pole someday--who am I to say he can't.
Maybe I have more to see and do than I ever thought possible.
I can't wait to find out.
After we talked about the North Pole--
what we would see and eat (it was decided that we would eat cookies from Santa's house),
I asked him if he had a second place that he would really like to visit.
"San Diego.
orrrrrr..........
Venus."
why not.